Monday, February 19, 2007
Yo...Late post this one is....was prepareing for a psych test ytd....anyway Happy Chinese New Year!!!...this pict was taken during the CNY meal i had with the indonesians of Milwaukee...shown in this picture is more or less all the Indonesian men in Milwaukee...awesome looking group, wouldnt you say? hahahaha....
argh this last week has been crazy...almost sick the entire week...even though not flu...but still give me a pain in the butt...there was once during a philosophy class where the prof ask me something on the board and i was like "......"....because my stomach was feeling like tsunami and i had a terrible cold...so yea...tht was more or less my week....
But there was something tht i learnt from a psychology class though...something about myself...and its so true tht it became scary...i don noe why it was scary...but for some reason i was taken aback at the accuracy....so this is how it goes...I was supposed to choose 4 from a list...you can do it too..choose 4 now,....
- Need for affection and approval
- Need to have a partner
- Narrowly restricting one's life (Dont want to be a burden to others)
- Seeking domination and power over others
- Exploiting others
- Need for social recognition or prestige
- Striving to be the best and defeat others (both friends and enemies)
- Inflated sense of self (See self as soemthing more than human)
- Being driven towards superiority (Perfectionist)
If you choose choices 1-3....you are called the Compliant type...Major characteristics are you are compliant towards others...you tend to defer to others...and any sign of rejection is terrifying to you...
if you choose choices 4-7.... you are called the Aggresive type...Major characteristics are hostility, dominating and are satisfied when others recognize your achievements
if you choose choices 8 to 10...you are called Detached type...Major characteristics are personal admiration..have high need for privacy...maintain emotional distance from people...tend to suppress/deny feelings for other ppl because leads to conflict...
So those needs are not good needs anyway...but i wont give u a psych lecture now...can u guess which one am I?...guess guess...haha...well im the Detached type...when i heard what the lecturer said...i was so taken aback from those facts tht i go..."omg...these are actually true..." well at least theres my explaination for me being single all these times anyway....so which one describes you best? if you want a more detailed explaination...you can google "Karen Horney's 10 neurotic needs"....=)...anyway Wish you guys receive lots of Hong Baos!!
About The Author
Name - Daniel_Widjaja
Age - 19
Ok this is me in a nutshell: reflective...hardworker...goofy humour...no sense of fashion(just common sense)...messy...hopeless romantic ;)...enthusiastic learner (depends on wad subject)...easygoing...loves family and friends...internet/msn addict...library bug...into fantasy stuffs...mugger...single-minded at times...AKLTG Alumni...can be kuku at certain subjects (fashion for example)...wahaha..ok thts however much i can describe me..my friends definitely hav more to add..be it good or bad...enjoy the visit in my blog !
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Places He Frequents By
The Superman Franchise/History Video
Superman Returns Full Trailer
akltg.com
NBA.com
Life Coaches Blog
Enlightenment.com
Slow Leadership.org
Anthony Robbins Motivational Video
Stuart Tan's Audio Programs
Marquette TKD Club
Crazy Martial Arts Videos
TED (Technology, Entertainment, Design)
Squidoo
His Companions
Jenny
Evelyn
Suang
1Peace05
Sam Shen
Eric
Eugenie
Stuart Tan
Evan
Celine
Tan Yong
Amanda
Wendrey
Gregory
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In This Life
Delta Goodrem
Wisdoms of Life
Favorites
Basketball, Martial Arts, Personal Development, Smallville, Superman, Southpark, Authentic Asian food (pls no sweet and sour chicken wif fried rice..im starting to get sick of it), Snowing days (its beautiful =) ), Fantasy and medieval stories, Rasberry ice lemon tea (wahahaha..it replaced green tea here)
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