Saturday, October 18, 2008
Helloo....ah been some time since I updated my blog. For some reason I feel like writing an entry at 3am in the morning. Comfortable temperature and a little alcohol makes a person reflective haha.
Ah well so far the semester been real busy for me...first time taking 19 credits, and besides that I'm taking Japanese, so I normally take a lot of time doing the homework. It's basically like learning chinese all over again, with spelling and writing word-for-word on the practice workbook. Then I have something new in my life now: Finance world. Not that I don't have it before, but now its kinda amplified now. Because of the financial crisis that is happening in the US, I become so engrossed in the stock market that I think some of my friends think me as weird when I turn on cnbc right after I come back from class...but o well we all need our little hobbies doesn't we?
There has been something that made me think for a while. Is it possible for someone to have just one gf/bf in their life and then thts it, like they settle down after that? I mean it is possible, but how big is the chance of meeting someone like that. I kinda ponder over some people who responded to what I said about this matter. One of them said, 'The pain will kill you." some others think I'm just being to idealistic. When it comes to the pain that can kill me, either way I'm screwed. Because if I play around and find a girlfriend that I dont think I want to get serious with, the pain of having to go through the end process is painful enough. But then on the other hand if I find someone that I know I can get serious with, but then later fail in the end, worse pain might follow, depending on the situation.
There is probably so many opinions on this matter. I mean... who am I to say what pain in the relationship is like? I know I am a veteran on saying what pain is before a relationship is, but I dont think I am in any position to say something about pain in a relationship. I know some people my age who has been in these situations more times than I can imagine, but the thing is...they are still fine and going. But then again I tend to be a little volatile when it comes to these situations...haha I think some of my closer friends know how thats like...but the point is that if people can go through situations like that and still emerge as one whole...whats the real deal? Won't it come to a point where the person will say,' Alright time to get serious.' or 'enough of fooling around'...but is it just a plunge they take when they started on the relationship? Do they think first about this person before getting emotionally mumbo-jumbo and in the heat of the moment say yes to the person? IIII dont know...maybe I'm just over-analysing this matter....but never hurts to avoid a number of landmines doesn't it?
About The Author
Name - Daniel_Widjaja
Age - 19
Ok this is me in a nutshell: reflective...hardworker...goofy humour...no sense of fashion(just common sense)...messy...hopeless romantic ;)...enthusiastic learner (depends on wad subject)...easygoing...loves family and friends...internet/msn addict...library bug...into fantasy stuffs...mugger...single-minded at times...AKLTG Alumni...can be kuku at certain subjects (fashion for example)...wahaha..ok thts however much i can describe me..my friends definitely hav more to add..be it good or bad...enjoy the visit in my blog !
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Places He Frequents By
The Superman Franchise/History Video
Superman Returns Full Trailer
akltg.com
NBA.com
Life Coaches Blog
Enlightenment.com
Slow Leadership.org
Anthony Robbins Motivational Video
Stuart Tan's Audio Programs
Marquette TKD Club
Crazy Martial Arts Videos
TED (Technology, Entertainment, Design)
Squidoo
His Companions
Jenny
Evelyn
Suang
1Peace05
Sam Shen
Eric
Eugenie
Stuart Tan
Evan
Celine
Tan Yong
Amanda
Wendrey
Gregory
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In This Life
Delta Goodrem
Wisdoms of Life
Favorites
Basketball, Martial Arts, Personal Development, Smallville, Superman, Southpark, Authentic Asian food (pls no sweet and sour chicken wif fried rice..im starting to get sick of it), Snowing days (its beautiful =) ), Fantasy and medieval stories, Rasberry ice lemon tea (wahahaha..it replaced green tea here)
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